Fan Into Flames began with one simple belief: marriage can be more than survival—it can be the most life-giving relationship you’ll ever have.

Our story hasn’t been picture-perfect. We’ve walked through rocky years filled with miscommunication, mistakes, and seasons where we felt more disconnected than close. Like many couples, we didn’t always know how to build trust or strengthen our marriage.

But over time, we found help. Through marriage books, online courses, retreats, and honest conversations, we began to discover each other again. We learned better ways to communicate, connect, and grow stronger together.

Fan Into Flames was born out of that journey—not because we have it all figured out, but because we know what it’s like to need hope, encouragement, and practical resources for marriage. We’re not experts—we’re fellow travelers who’ve seen both the hard and the healing.

Today, this site exists to share what helped us, and other couples: marriage enrichment tools, date night ideas, counseling options, and honest encouragement. Because great marriages don’t just happen—they’re built, fanned into flame, and worth fighting for.